Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Letting Be

Cultivating this ability to “let go” is an important aspect of learning to live a happy life. I have a lot of students who have told me how hard they find it to let go. I think the problem lies within their response. It goes back to concretizing. 

Now I know I am focusing on linguistics but in 15 years of teaching, you begin to pick up on some commonalities when people experience a challenge. They say it is hard and they freeze up instead of rising to the challenge. The challenge lies in seeing a thought for what it is—just a thought. It weighs nothing, means nothing, and in an essence, has no power unless, and this is a big unless, we give our attention to it. 

This is what happens when we freeze up around the thought. We have given our attention and power to the thought. We begin to mentally invest in this thought, emotions begin to arise, and finally, the concretizing happens. Given enough attention the thought gives birth to a belief. We begin believing the thought is real—in many ways, we become the thought. This is how thoughts can begin to shape our lives. 

For these students facing particularly difficult challenges, I believe they are engaging the verb, letting go a little too strenuously. I encourage a shift to “letting be”. This is something that has worked greatly for me. It reduces pushing or being aggressive. It’s productive when we stop trying so hard to push away or rid ourselves of something and instead, apply a willingness to understand.  Understanding is not analyzing or judging, as much as it is seeing the thoughts for what they are – just thoughts.  As you apply awareness to your thoughts, your awareness shines light onto the very nature of thought which is empty space. This realization and understanding can bring a sense of peace and freedom into that moment. 
 
Before you know it, the thought will be back. This is why you practice this technique. The ability to “letting be” strengthens with increased frequency of application. Your awareness will grow as will your ability to see that you are more then just thoughts. 
 

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

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