Born To Run

A few months ago, I read a book entitled "Born to Run" by Christopher Mac Dougall. Chris is a former war correspondent and contributing editor for Men's Health. He set out to discover why 8 out of 10 runners are injured each year--he counts himself as one of those 8. His journey takes him from his doctor's offices in Philadelphia to the biomechanics lab of the University of Delaware. He winds up at Harvard's anthropology department and heads out to the West Coast to learn more at Stanford. His journey ends in the Copper Canyons of Mexico for the grand finale of the book and the greatest race the world will never see. I listened to the book and was literally in tears towards the end. Christopher beautifully weaves scientific research into a fun and entertaining story that is not just for runners. It is a story about the human spirit with a triumphant ending and a powerful message.

I picked up this New York Times Best Seller after three people told me about the book in one week. These people told me that Christopher was bringing some of the same information to his readers that I had taught within my movement principles workshop. This book gave me permission to act on what I knew to be true. A little over nine years ago I kicked off the shoes and started a yoga practice. I always thought about running barefoot yet listened to the popular myth that I need shoes to handle compressional forces. Chris's book taught me that I truly did not need them. I started running barefoot (with Fibrum Five Finger Shoes) four weeks ago and it has truly been a paradigm shifting experience for me. In my next blog I will post a recommendation on where to buy the shoes and how to begin the journey of running with the earth instead of on it.

It's just my little toe

My wife and I were at a party this weekend. As I was talking with another guest at the party, I could not help but notice that she was favoring one foot. I asked her what was wrong. She said, "Oh it's nothing--I just broke my little toe." My wife turned to me right away and said, "Shut up--don't say a word." Sara knows the way I think and she is very educated on movement principles herself. She really knows her stuff and understands the independent nature of the human body and mind. I said nothing and just let it go.

Two of the three arches in the foot connect to the little toe. These arches serve to handle compressional forces and absorb shock while standing, walking, running etc. Basically, if you are on your feet, the arches are meant to be working. When the little toe is not functioning, the arches of the feet are

not functioning, and the joints above the foot- such as the ankles, knees, hips, spinal column, etc-are each working even harder and are subject to more compression within each joint.

Most people I speak with don't seem to understand how the body is interdependent and how everything effects everything. I find that it is the tendency of every one's mind, and not just mine, to possess a narrow focus. We have trouble seeing how everything is connected and related.

I would certainly be unaware of this truth if not for the hundreds and thousands of moments of focused attention on my yoga mat. My practice has truly taught me that the smallest adjustment in my foot can adjust my neck or shoulder--it is truly amazing to experience this connection.

Life is very much the same--our thoughts, actions and inaction's within each and every moment will affect the people near us and the world beyond us. We are all living in this cause and effect relationship and there is nothing that is not felt... that is truly something that is worth contemplating.

Living the Ordinary Extraordinary

After last night's class, a student asked me a question that no one has ever asked me before. The student, who was new to Empowered Yoga but not new to spiritual practice, asked me if I had opened up my third eye.

The third eye is where the Hindus respectfully wear the red dot. The third eye is referred to as the Eye of Intuition and is one of the Seven Chakras within the human body. I responded "No, I have not." He looked at me with a puzzled expression on his face and asked, "Well then why do you practice?" I told him that I practice so that I can be a better husband, a better Dad and a nicer person within this world.

I have no aspirations for anything extraordinary--I aspire to live the ordinary life extraordinarily. He smiled, and said that he understood. During over conversation, he told me that he was off to India to study with a guru. It prompted me to share something with him: "I searched for years only to come full circle and realize that what I was looking for was right here. Maybe you will find what you are looking for in India, but maybe it is right here and you are unable to see it." After long pause, he spoke. "Maybe you are right", he said. I replied, "Maybe I am and maybe I am not-- but either way you will find out."

It reminds me of the last chapter in a modern day book that is bound to become a classic. The book is called "Light on Life", by 91-year-old Yoga Master BKS Iyengar. He tells the reader that he spent the majority of his life as a seeker and it is only now that he sees clearly. He urges the reader not to make the same mistake that he has made. Iyengar is asking us to stop looking outside of ourselves and start looking within. Stop thinking that some moment around the corner will complete us. Stop thinking that if our lives were different, they would somehow be complete. This kind of thinking postpones our happiness until the future. One day, we realize that we are old, and that we missed the whole point of life-- this moment is enough, be appreciative to be alive. Enjoy your life now.

It's Not Yoga

It always cracks me up when I hear people say, "That is not Yoga". It gets into the mental constructs that people build in their minds about what something is. This is the way our mind works.

For instance—when we meet someone, we ask questions. As we hear information about them, our minds begin developing a view or picture of the person. We can then make a judgment as to whether or not we like the person, whether the person is someone we want to be around, and if the person is worth our time. If you have never noticed this about your mind then pay attention the next time you meet someone new and watch the way your mind works and builds a construct.

Yoga is no different. If people come in and they have never done yoga then Empowered Yoga becomes their mental construct of what yoga is and should be. Yoga should be heated, have mirrors, and involve intention setting and chanting Om. This becomes their mental construct of yoga. It builds a student’s body and helps deepen Hatha Yoga (physical) practice, yet, many times it leaves a student rigid in belief and thus closes them to possibilities.

The idea behind repeating a sequence or committing to a style is to begin to develop a deeper understanding of reality and their relationship to it. The very nature of reality is fluid and ever changing. In our observation we can begin to realize that we suffer in life because of our rigid mental constructs and beliefs that do not allow us to see the beauty in something or see something that we have seen many times before in a whole new light.

When someone says to me, “That’s not yoga” I understand that they are stuck in a mental construct. In essence, they are admitting that they are not yoga and really don’t understand yoga. Yoga is everything. Yoga encompasses all. Yoga is Life!

Getting out of the Box

Empowered Yoga was founded on a simple yet profound premise—you have the ability to wake up to your life right now. All of our experience is created by our minds. We are primarily responsible for the pain and stress we create in our lives and the lives of those around us. Most of this pain is due to living life on automatic pilot and reacting to life in habitual ways that are ingrained within us from past conditioning. We get caught in a box and the box can suffocate us.

Each of our brains is wired in a unique way. By becoming present and learning to observe our thinking from a non-judgmental standpoint we can begin to see the way we are wired. It is important to observe our reactions from witnessing perspective so that we can come to fully own who we are. If we get caught up in judging ourselves then we risk falling into a dual mindset.

Practice becomes a process of making friends with ourselves and owning all the aspects of who we are. It is by fully owning who we are that life becomes more workable. Our habitual thought patterns become more palpable and this develops the very ground to work with them. When we judge ourselves we never fully own our minds—by judging ourselves we hold ourselves at arms length further perpetuating and ingraining the thoughts.

In order to choose wisely we need to develop awareness. More specifically we need to develop more precision and intimacy with the present moment. It is within this precision that we can learn to identify thought patterns that no longer serve us and create unnecessary suffering within our lives. We can also become aware of thoughts that create and support happiness and joy and learn to invest more attention into these thoughts.

It is in changing the direction of our life that we ultimately begin changing the direction of the lives around us—this is the paradox of personal change. We all would like to see the world change and for things to be more peaceful and more loving. For this to happen we have to begin to work on ourselves. In the words of Gandhi, “Be the change you wish to see within the world”

Becoming empowered begins with a profound realization that you do have moment to moment choices within your life. You don’t have to be a slave to past conditioning. You don’t have to be a victim. You can chose wisely and compassionately to change your life’s direction. All of this can happen by simply making a commitment to pay attention and observe how you are relating to what is happening.

Traveling Man

Over the past three weeks I have been traveling. I was in Italy with my family and then teaching in Costa Rica and Las Vegas for two weeks. All in all I feel very fortunate to be able to step away from business and my family.

With this being said I am very glad to have been given the life I have. I am a home-body and I prefer being at home verses on the road. Occasional trips are fun yet after expereincing three weeks in a row I have had my fill.

I have a lot of compassion and respect for people that have to travel a lot. I was on planes, trains, automoblies and ships. Traveling can really test your patience and show you who you are. We got lost in Italy a few times, I missed a plane in Charlotte and sat next to a guy heading to Las Vegas who sniffled for four straight hours wiping his nose with his hand.

To me these are the greatest tests of yoga--when life is just not going your way. How do you react? Can you discover peace amongst discomfort? I fared pretty well yet I have a long way to go. At times I felt enlightened and at other times I felt like freaking out--isn't that the way life goes?

I will post another blog tomorrow and get back to one a week now that I am home.

9-12

I taught a workshop this weekend in Charlotte, North Carolina at the Laughing Buddha Yoga Center. The owner Dawn Hinshaw and the whole Laughing Buddha Community was so nice and receptive to the teachings. Our last session was Sunday morning from 9-12pm. This was the fourth session and each session was 3 hours. Sara poetically pointed out that it was their 9th through 12th hour of yoga within 40 hours--we all laughed!

Why would someone want to do this much Yoga in such a short period of time? Simply put, because it transforms you and shifts your perspective quickly. If there is one thing yoga is aiming to do, it is shifting your perspective. As we age we tend to become more solid within our beliefs and more rigid within our thinking. It is not just our bodies that tighten and harden--it is our minds too. Our mental constructs towards people, places and things become more narrow and this limits the possibilities. This unfortunately gets us stuck in ruts. I hear adults all the time say, "I wish I could do that." You are living a substitute life.

When you practice this much yoga, your body and mind start to loosen their grip--you soften and begin feeling the many possibilities that life presents. It is the silence and the process of continually coming back to the present moment that allows us to begin seeing that-- in many ways-- you hold the key to your future. As Rumi says, "Why do you stay imprisoned when the door is wide open?". Your mind is what paints your moment to moment awareness. Yoga teaches us to become aware of the paint colors and the landscape. It also allows us to step back and change colors and the landscape.

At the end of our session on Sunday you could see the shift on people's faces. Their skin was brighter and their eyes were wide open. There was a radiance about everyone. Thanks to everyone within the Laughing Buddha Community--Sara and I felt right at home.